Ash Wednesday, February 14

Ash Wednesday, February 14

Remember, you are dust, and unto dust you shall return.

Lent starts on Wednesday, with a curious symbol that seems rather morbid. Ashes: the sign of our mortality. Is this any way to begin, with an invitation to consider death?

On your deathbed, it won’t be the things you’ve done in life you’ll regret, but the things you didn’t do. You need to value every second as if it were your last, because it very well might be.

Life isn’t about how much money we make or how many people like our Facebook updates. It’s about living in the allotted moments we have.

Never take your relationships for granted. Tell people now, when their eyes are still open, “I love you!” “I forgive you.” Don’t put it off, because eventually, tomorrows will run out.

Masses will be celebrated, and Ashes distributed, on Wednesday, February 14, at 7:30 a.m., 11 a.m. and 7 p.m.

“The time has now come in the Church year for the solemn observance of the great central act of history, the redemption of the human race by our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. In the Roman Rite, the beginning of the forty days of penance is marked with the austere symbol of ashes which is used in today’s liturgy. The use of ashes is a survival from an ancient rite according to which converted sinners submitted themselves to canonical penance. The Alleluia and the Gloria are suppressed until Easter.

Abstinence from eating meat is to be observed on all Fridays during Lent. This applies to all persons 14 and older. The law of fasting on Ash Wednesday and Good Friday applies to all Catholics from age 18 through age 59…

At the beginning of Lent, on Ash Wednesday, ashes are blessed during Mass, after the homily. The blessed ashes are then “imposed” on the faithful as a sign of conversion, penance, fasting and human mortality…

The act of putting on ashes symbolizes fragility and mortality, and the need to be redeemed by the mercy of God. Far from being a merely external act, the Church has retained the use of ashes to symbolize that attitude of internal penance to which all the baptized are called during Lent.” — Directory on Popular Piety and the Liturgy

Things to Do:

  • Go with your family to receive ashes at Mass today. Leave them on your forehead as a witness to your faith. Here is a Lenten reflection on the meaning of the ashes on Ash Wednesday. If you have children, you may want to share this with them in terms that they can understand.
  • Today parents should encourage their children to reflect upon what regular penances they will perform throughout this season of Lent. Ideally, each member of the family should choose his own personal penance as well as some good act that he will perform (daily spiritual reading, daily Mass, extra prayers, almsgiving, volunteer work, housecleaning, etc.), and the whole family may wish to give up one thing together (TV, movies, desserts) or do something extra (family rosary, Holy Hour, Lenten Alms Jar).
  • The use of Sacrifice Beans may help children to keep track of their Lenten penances. Some families begin this activity (with undyed beans!) on Ash Wednesday and then use the collected beans to cook a penitential bean dish for Good Friday at the end of Lent.
  • Here is a Lenten prayer that the family may pray every night from Ash Wednesday to the first Saturday in Lent, to turn the family’s spiritual focus towards this holy season.
  • Read Pope Francis’s 2014 Message for Lent.

Source: Read more here.